{"id":3107,"date":"2026-08-10T13:14:49","date_gmt":"2026-08-10T13:14:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ohmypeople.be\/the-damage-doesnt-stop-after-you-log-out\/"},"modified":"2026-08-10T13:14:49","modified_gmt":"2026-08-10T13:14:49","slug":"the-damage-doesnt-stop-after-you-log-out","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ohmypeople.be\/en\/the-damage-doesnt-stop-after-you-log-out\/","title":{"rendered":"The damage doesn&#8217;t stop after you log out"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cThe damage doesn\u2019t stop when you log out.\u201d Stress expert Elke Van Hoof on setting boundaries, digital disconnection, and work-life balance. <\/p>\n<p>How often do you say \u201cyes\u201d when you actually mean \u201cno\u201d? Do you quickly check your work email in the evening, or skip your lunch break because you \u201chave to\u201d? And how does that affect your stress levels in the long run?  <\/p>\n<p>Elke Van Hoof explains what happens in your brain when work encroaches on your personal time. In doing so, she makes an important distinction that we often overlook: when is something truly a necessity at work, and when does it feel more like a desire of your own or of others? <\/p>\n<p>Because that\u2019s exactly where things often go wrong. We treat wants as if they were urgent needs. An email that can wait until tomorrow, a task that would be \u201cconvenient\u201d to finish right now, a coworker who asks for something that isn\u2019t a priority\u2026 By failing to draw a clear distinction, your boundaries blur almost automatically.  <\/p>\n<p>She explains why setting boundaries is so difficult, how perfectionism and people-pleasing can overwhelm you, and why strictly separating work and personal life isn\u2019t always the solution. It\u2019s really about making more conscious choices about what truly needs to be done and what can wait. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cThe damage doesn\u2019t stop when you log out.\u201d Stress expert &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":3109,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":"","_members_access_role":[],"_members_access_error":""},"categories":[173],"tags":[297],"class_list":["post-3107","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-podcast","tag-podcast-episode-48"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ohmypeople.be\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3107","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ohmypeople.be\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ohmypeople.be\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ohmypeople.be\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ohmypeople.be\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3107"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ohmypeople.be\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3107\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ohmypeople.be\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3109"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ohmypeople.be\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3107"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ohmypeople.be\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3107"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ohmypeople.be\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3107"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}